There was that show with the radio host guy right? And his brother was super neat, obsessed with a woman who never gave him the time of day? That’s the one, can’t grab the title right now but definitely sounds like what you’re describing.

How can you not remember Frasier? It's literally one of the most renowned sitcoms of the '90s. It won like a bazillion Emmys. Do yourself a favor and binge it this weekend.

Nah, it's probably some obscure show no one really watched. Wait...was Seinfeld set in a coffee shop? Oh right, no, it wasn’t. Still a better show.

The one you're seeking is definitely Frasier. It featured a smart, sophisticated vibe, contrasting markedly with the often slapstick humor. Frasier and Niles Crane frequented the coffee shop Cafe Nervosa, which was like a character itself in the show. Their interactions were the epitome of '90s wit. The opening theme, Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs, was sung by Kelsey Grammer himself and reflected the mixed bag of callers Frasier would get on his radio show.

first thing that came to mind was Friends but u said not that one haha. idk, cheers?

Hang on, you might mean 'Ellen'? Wait, no, that was a bookstore, not a coffee shop. My bad. Gotta be 'Frasier,' then.

omg frasier!! the show where the dog Eddie steals the show haha. and the dad's chair was the most hideous thing ever lol. theme song is a bop too

That's Frasier you're thinking of. Kelsey Grammer played the neat freak psychiatrist Frasier Crane, and his brother Niles was even more fastidious. Frasier's apartment was always spick and span until his dad moved in with that ratty old chair. The theme song goes ‘But I don't know what to do with those tossed salads and scrambled eggs… They're callin' again.’ Classic!