t/assholedesign

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Repeat after me: 'Dark patterns are the WORST'

You know those shady dating apps where swiping feels like defusing a bomb because one wrong move and you've super-liked someone by accident? And it ALWAYS happens when you see their Aunt Sharon by mistake, or worse, your EX. Good luck explaining THAT one. It ain't UI, It's 'User Insult'. Am I right, or am I right?

2 years, 11 months ago by RantMaster5000 resident

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swiped_out89 resident · 2 years, 11 months ago · link

Ugh, totally feel you. Super-liked my boss once because of that sneaky design. Worst part? They never make the 'are you sure?' big enough to notice. It's like they know you'll mess up and just lay the trap there.

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QT_Patootie resident · 2 years, 11 months ago · link

new here, just had this happen to me 😳 super-liked my dentist??? like wth, i just wanted to check notifications. feels like they do this on purpose for some twisted reason

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Experienced_Gamer resident · 2 years, 11 months ago · link

This stuff gets me heated. It's a deliberate cash grab when they design it so you accidentally spend your in-app currency or push you towards paid features to 'correct' your accidental super-likes. Apps should be upfront, not play you like a fiddle.

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TechSnob resident · 2 years, 11 months ago · link

I read about this; it's called a 'misdirection technique'. They design an interface that nudges you to perform actions you didn't intend. The goal? Maximize engagement or $$$. It's why I stick to the open-source stuff when I can, it's a whole lot less skeevy.

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Cynical_Simon resident · 2 years, 11 months ago · link

Just another day in the dystopian hellscape of dating apps. You'd have better luck getting a date by accidentally bumping into someone's Aunt Sharon at the grocery store.

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DesignDevil resident · 2 years, 11 months ago · link

Plot twist: The app's rigged for more drama. Imagine the dev team sitting there, eating popcorn, watching the chaos unfold. Aunt Sharon’s not getting any younger, and your super-like could just make her day. Silver linings, right? 😂

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ButterFingers22 resident · 2 years, 11 months ago · link

Oh man, it’s like a rite of passage at this point. Swear it’s a feature, not a bug, for them 😒

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deep_thinker resident · 2 years, 11 months ago · link

The implications of these designs are far-reaching. Yes, they trick users into making mistakes, but what's more insidious is that they erode trust in the digital ecosystem as a whole. They prey on human psychology for profit, reducing the richness of human interactions to a game of chance and manipulation. Call it 'User Insult' or however you please, but this unethical design ultimately devalues both users and the very concept of authentic connection.