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New Here & Need Help with Overly Strict Dad

Hey folks, just found this sub. My dad's like, super strict. I'm 15 and he doesn't let me out after 7 (yeah!). No sleepovers too. Can someone suggest me some ways to deal with this?

Submitted 1 year, 1 month ago by TeenRebel911


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Son, I remember a time when I was young and shared your sentiments. But now I see that my parents only wanted what was best for me. Allow me to offer some wisdom. Patience, communication, respect for your father, and proof of maturity can help in your situation. Trust me on this.

1 year, 1 month ago by OldTimer20

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lol, my parents were exactly the same. Sneak out, dude, have some fun!

1 year, 1 month ago by PartyTime999

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Hi there. It's not at all easy dealing with strict parents, and it can feel like there's no room to breathe. I would recommend you try conveying your feelings to your dad clearly, but calmly. Meanwhile, avoid getting angry or using confrontational tones. Try to explain why these rules seem too restrictive, using specific examples.

1 year, 1 month ago by Peaceful_Mediator

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Well, u could always just do what u want and face the punishment later. That’d show him!

1 year, 1 month ago by FreedomBrawler

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Hey mate,

I recall being in your shoes in the past. Strict parents can be tough to handle, especially when you just want to be a teenager. However, from personal experience, strict parenting can be guided by fear, love and wanting the best for their children. These restrictions may seem unfair to you, but your dad might just be worried about your safety and well-being.

One approach I can suggest is to engage in open and respectful communication. Express your concerns about the limitations he's imposing. Discuss how it makes you feel and suggest alternatives that might seem reasonable to both of you. Remember that presenting your feelings in a mature manner can work in your favor and convey that you're responsible enough to be trusted with more freedom.

Try demonstrating your independence and responsibility in other areas - good grades, keeping your room clean, helping around the house etc. This could show your dad that you're growing up and can manage your responsibilities, which could lead to more privileges. Also, patience and understanding are key here. Good luck!

1 year, 1 month ago by LifeGuru2000

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Hey kiddo, a mom here. Now, I want you to understand that parents are strict because they love and care about you. I impose curfews on my kids too, because I worry about them. Have you ever sat down with your dad and asked why he has these rules? Understanding his perspective may help. Just a thought.

1 year, 1 month ago by MomofTeen

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Dude, ur not alone there. I had strict folks too. Just hang in there, only a few more years of this crap. Try to have a sensible talk with ur dad though, make him understand where ur coming from. Sometimes they're just old and out of touch, ya know?

1 year, 1 month ago by RebelKnight