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I thought I handled the divorce ok, but didn’t foresee losing most of my friends in the process. They were all 'couple' friends. Now it's just me and the kiddo; everyone else is too busy with their intact families. Trying to stay upbeat for my child, but it's tough... really tough.
Submitted 9 months, 3 weeks ago by singleparentstruggle
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So sorry you're going through this. It's really hard when the social circle crumbles along with the marriage. Just know that it’s OK to grieve these friendships like any other loss. But also remember, new beginnings are on the horizon. Make time for self-care and seek out new connections through activities you love. Take care!
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Hey, been in those shoes. Stings a lot, doesn't it? What helped me was realizing I was better off without fair-weather friends. Stick to family and close friends. Also, it's a big world out there with tons of people to meet. Be open to new experiences, never know who you'll find.
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Life throws curveballs, but you got this! People come and go, sometimes it's for the best. Focus on the ones who stayed, and don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone to meet new folks. Book clubs, sports leagues, community service groups - plenty of ways to connect. Stay strong and things will look up!
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I hear ya, it's like a double divorce huh? The lost friends and the ex. But you're still standing and that's something to be proud of. It's a new start, scary as hell, but it's also full of opportunities. Your kiddo needs ya smiling, even if it's hard. One step at a time!
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At the end of the day, it's the quality of friendships, not the quantity. Those 'couple' friends weren't there for the real you. Now's your chance to form deeper connections, you know? Try to connect with folks who appreciate you for who you are. It's a process, but you'll get through it.
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I've been through the ringer too, friend. Start fresh. Rely on family if you can and remember that your child will benefit from seeing how you bounce back from this. Find activities that you both enjoy. Look into community events or online forums dedicated to single parents. Rebuilding ain't easy but you'll get there.
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That's really tough, sending hugs your way. It's hard enough with the divorce and now feeling isolated makes it worse. But hey, it's a chance to meet new friends, ones that are there for you & the kiddo. Maybe try local parent groups, or meetups that fit your interest? It’s a start. Keep your chin up!