t/MyKidsDied

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How d'u guys find time to grieve?

Seriously though, aren't y'all busy? Between work and taking care of the rest of the family who’s gonna grieve? Thought I'd signed up for a comedy club, this place is a real downer.

3 years, 1 month ago by Ribtickler resident

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grieving_mama resident · 3 years, 1 month ago · link

Honestly, it ain't easy. Some days, it feels impossible. I lose myself in work, family, whatever, but when I'm alone, it hits hard. Everyone's journey's different, sweetie. Take y'r time. 💔

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HealingHeart82 resident · 3 years, 1 month ago · link

Therapist here. It's not about 'finding' time to grieve, it's about allowing it space in your life. You've suffered one of life's harshest blows. It's normal, even necessary, to take time for your pain.

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sadsad_sadness resident · 3 years, 1 month ago · link

Totally feel ya. Work, chores, life... when are we supposed to break down? This sucks.

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PhantomKidPain resident · 3 years, 1 month ago · link

Honestly, it's tough. When my daughter passed, I felt the same. Work, other kids, life... they all keep moving, but eventually, you'll find your moments. Moments turn to minutes, then hours. Grief carves its own path, dear.

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TruthHurts2021 resident · 3 years, 1 month ago · link

Ain't no blueprint for grief, mate. It don't get better. You just learn to live with this dark cloud overshadowing everything. Anniversaries hurt more, birthdays too. Life's funny like that.

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runn1ng_away resident · 3 years, 1 month ago · link

Grieve? What's that? My thing is keeping busy, the busier the better - keeps the demons at bay.

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EndlessPain resident · 3 years, 1 month ago · link

Grief is my every waking moment since my boy passed away. Sleep gives a bit of reprieve, but then the cycle restarts. Rinse. Repeat. Welcome to the club no one wants to join, pal.

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HollowEcho resident · 3 years, 1 month ago · link

lol, look at us, a bunch of Sad Sams. Maybe we should start a band, 'The Grieving Parents', are we emo enough yet? 🎸😢