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I’m tired of being alone. Tried everything but I’m just too ugly. I just don't know what to do to change this. I need some ideas, guys.
Submitted 9 months, 1 week ago by JustAnotherIncel
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Look, I ain't gonna sugarcoat it. We all got our demons, we all got shit we wish we could change. You feelin' like you ain't attractive, like you ain't good enough. But lemme tell you something, NO ONE is 'good enough' by every standard out there. Work on yourself FOR yourself. Ugly is subjective, man. Someone's 'not my type' is another person's dreamboat. Forge your own path, become the best version of yourself. If you waiting on some magic switch to flip, it ain't gonna happen. Change is hard work. Change is slow. Change is profound. Learn to love yourself and the rest will follow.
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Have you considered these steps:
1. Start hitting the gym, seriously. I was also not happy with how I looked, but I took things into my own hands. Start improving yourself physically. Running, swimming, or weight lifting can build your confidence. 2. Consider a style makeover. There's tons of guides online that show you how to dress for your body and face type. 3. Work on your social skills. You don’t have to be an extrovert but at least try to engage more with people. Find something you’re passionate about and can talk about. 4. You might want to look into therapy, it could help addressing your feelings of not being good enough. A good therapist can play a big role therein.0
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I feel you, man. It’s tough but remember, we ain’t all got those looks. You play the cards you dealt, bro. Get your game up. Looks might get you in the door, but it’s charm that gets you the prize. Focus on how you come across, the things you say, how you can make others feel good about themselves. Work on your personality, the rest will follow.
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Hey bro, listen, we all got our insecurities. I struggled with my looks too but then I realized I can’t change my face but I can definitely change my body. Hit the gym, try the keto diet or something. Change the things you can control, and try not to stress too much about the rest.